Indians have had an old relationship with oiling hair. Our grandmothers and mothers have done it since their childhood and continue it on us too 😀 With the changing times, we have almost given up oiling our hair. Do we really have to oil our hair the exactly same way our ancestors did? Are there any benefits of oiling curly hair at all? If so, which oils should we be using? And how should we apply oil to curly hair? Let’s find out 🙂Benefits of oils on curly hair
1. For hair growth – Along with a few oils that actually do penetrate hair, another important benefit of oiling your hair is the massage that comes with it. It increases circulation of blood to the scalp thus promoting growth. Here’s another post you may like ! – 7 ways to grow healthy hair. You can also check out The Ayurveda Experience Hair Oils for hair growth here.
2. As a pre poo protector – They act as a protector before your shampoo (pre-poo). When you have oil on your hair, the shampoo is less damaging to your hair and the little remnants that do remain after shampooing will act as a sealant, sealing moisture in your hair strands.
3. As a deep conditioner – The fatty acids in the oils help restore your hair’s lost lipid layer. So if your hair is very dry and rough, oiling definitely proves useful. They key here is to keep them for a longer duration (like you would do with a deep conditioner).
4. As a detangler – Oils provide a lot of slip and thus make detangling very very easy. Done before your wash, oiling makes, detangling further in the shower while conditioning, a breeze 🙂
5. As a leave in – Light sealing oils can lock in moisture and impart gloss and shine to your hair.
6. To fix your not-so-great conditioners – Do you have a conditioner that you paid a lot for, only to find it does nothing to your dry hair? Mix in a few drops of oil and the conditioner just before you apply it on your hair.
So now the next obvious question that comes is what oils should we be using to get the benefits? And how do we apply oil to curly hair?
Types of oils and how to incorporate oils into your curly hair care routine
Oils can be put into 2 groups based on if or not they benefit the health of your hair.
Moisturizing oils – These oils can actually provide nourishment to your hair by penetrating the hair shaft. Coconut oil is the best at penetration, followed by extra virgin olive oil and avocado oil. The main fatty acids in these oils are really small, thus making penetration easy (That explains why Malayali women (women from Kerala – the land of coconuts) have thick black lustrous hair right?!).
In addition, lauric acid found in coconut oil has a high affinity for hair proteins thus preventing protein loss – Science of Coconut oil on hair(plus brand suggestions)
Let’s see how we can use moisturizing oils on curly hair.
1. Do not use so much oil that you would need extra shampoo or an extra rinse to get rid of the greasiness. That beats the whole purpose of oiling your hair, right? Your shampoo quantity should remain the same. This will help you decide how much oil you need to apply. In fact one benefit of oiling before shampoo is to protect your hair from the shampoo so you don’t want to it to become counterintuitive by adding more shampoo! Also you should leave a little oil on your hair (a very tiny amount) so that it acts as a sealant.
2. Concentrate on the scalp while massaging using your fingertips (not your nails) to ensure a good blood circulation. As you reach the length of your hair, change your technique from massaging to detangling. Approach your hair in sections and very slightly detangle the knots in your hair using the oil as a lubricant.
How long should you leave oil in your hair?
There is a research paper(Quantitative measurement of the penetration of coconut oil into human hair using radio-labeled coconut oil) that shows that hair can absorb around 15% of its weight in coconut oil in an hour. An overnight soaking oil (six hours) increases absorption to around 20% or 25%.
3. Wait for as long as you like (anywhere from a few minutes to a whole hour) and wash it off. Since the above oils actually penetrate the hair shaft, you will benefit more the longer you keep it in your hair.
The above 3 steps can be done every time you feel your hair is super dry, or if you want me to give you a number, I would say probably once a week. The amount of oil, as I said, would be less than what makes your hair look greasy or makes you want to add extra shampoo but just enough to remove dryness.
4. If you don’t have time for a pre poo (oiling before shampooing), mix a little oil into your shampoo before lathering it onto your hair. This helps to keep the shampoo gentle and moisturizing at the same time.
5. Mix a really small amount of the oil with your conditioner. I love using olive oil for this. I find that this method works better then applying oil on dry hair because it works in unison with water to lock in moisture.
The above 2 steps can be done every time you wash your hair.
Sealing oils – They just seal in moisture. That means you need to provide moisture to your hair before applying these oils. These don’t penetrate the hair shaft but they block humidity and impart sheen. Light oils like argan oil or jojoba oil work best as sealing oils.
Mix them with your styling product for the added shine. But remember that you only need 1 or 2 drops for this method to avoid greasy looking hair. You want shine not grease.
Oiling in earlier times used to be solely for hair growth and they wouldn’t wash it off making hair look super greasy. Now we know that new times still call for hair oils. Just the method of applying and purpose has changed 🙂
You may also be interested in this – Difference between Moisturizing and Sealing (Oiling)
If you have any doubts regarding the article, shoot them in comments below 🙂
Blog Comments
nitzgwal
March 20, 2016 at 1:42 pm
Hey…anjana!My problem z not related to this article but a confusing one.My hair seems to lose it curls after applying conditioner.I mean really how come?my hair remain curly if i dont apply conditioner but as soon as I apply conditioner and wash it off my hairs become very light and curls vanish😕😣😦
Anjana
March 20, 2016 at 4:47 pm
Which conditioner do you use? And how do you apply and wash it off ? Describe in detail !
Aparna
July 4, 2020 at 7:44 pm
Hey Anjana. I am facing hair fall problem. Can u suggest some natural way to control hair falling of my curly hair ? It is coming in patches while combing my dry hair after shampoo
Anjana
July 6, 2020 at 3:54 pm
https://www.curlsandbeautydiary.com/hairfall-causes-remedies/
Neha Gaikwad
September 4, 2019 at 11:16 am
Hello Anjana ! This is one of the best hair blogs I have ever come across. I have one question I have got this ayurvedic home-made hair oil for hair growth. But removing the oil from the hair during hair wash is a tedious task as I have to apply shampoo to my hair 2-3 times. Can you suggest some solution to this as I ended up losing a lot of hair in this process ?
May be my oiling technique was wrong or the shampooing technique.
Anjana
September 4, 2019 at 12:36 pm
Use considerably lesser oil. If you have to shampoo your hair repeatedly, that defies the purpose of oiling 🙂
Shifali
March 22, 2016 at 11:49 pm
Hi Anjana,
Which oil do you use?
Anjana
March 23, 2016 at 7:36 am
Hi Shifali, I use either coconut or olive depending on my mood 🙂
sheetal
March 28, 2016 at 11:21 am
Once again nice tips Anjana !! 🙂
Saumya
May 31, 2016 at 2:31 pm
Hi Anjana
First of all thanks for this blog. It is so hard to find curly girl hair care routine for Indian hair. I have 2b/2c type of curls but they are curly on the end and flat on the crown area. In nutshell I have weigh down curly/wavy hair. What can be done to make those curls well defined and not like they are pulled down.
Anjana
May 31, 2016 at 3:16 pm
Hi Saumya! Coincidently, I also face the same problem 🙁 I am doing some experiments with curl clips and gels and I can see some results. I will put a post after I have experimented enough. Meanwhile you can try them too 🙂
Muskan Malhotra
July 27, 2020 at 4:12 pm
Hey! Nice post. But i feel that after application of coconut oil, my curls loose their definition,is this possible,also how is mustard oil for curly indian hair
Anjana
July 28, 2020 at 3:53 pm
That could happen Muskan, it is very individual. You could use mustard oil if you like it.
Saumya
May 31, 2016 at 3:31 pm
Thanks Anjana I will try them too 🙂 but again I will wait for your post regarding this. Could you tell me which is the best leave in conditioner for curly hair. which one do you recommend?
Anjana
June 1, 2016 at 11:00 am
Leave in conditioner is just a light watery form of a conditioner. So you can dilute your favorite conditioner with water and use it as a leave in.
Saumya
June 1, 2016 at 9:51 pm
Thanks Anjana 🙂
Priyanka
June 16, 2016 at 12:53 pm
Hi Anjana.. Love your posts.. They are like the holy grail for curly hair :-).. What I want to ask is if I am co washing do I pre poo with oil because its a little difficult to remove with just conditioner
Anjana
June 16, 2016 at 2:08 pm
Thanks Priyanka :)) Yes I do pre poo with coconut oils at times before co washing – the trick is to get the balance right – just enough oil to nourish your hair, yet not so much that it makes it look greasy. Decrease the amount of oil you use currently and try 🙂
Priyanka
July 29, 2016 at 5:52 pm
Thanks for your answer!.. I’ll try that… One more thing though.. The prospect of washing my hair at night is tempting as i can give it all the time it takes to dry… The only thing keeping me from that is I sleep with the air conditioner full blast as its extremely hot where I live.. M worried I might develop a cold by morning.. Hehe… How do u manage?.. And what about during winters?
Anjana
August 1, 2016 at 10:44 am
Hehe 🙂 I have never caught a cold because of sleeping with wet hair whatever the weather is. You could try it for a few days and see if it suits you 🙂
shivani
August 2, 2016 at 3:36 pm
Wonderful article!! I have straight hair though but found it informative nevertheless. Can you please comment on castor oil and sesame oil? Do they moisturize hair or sit on top? Castor oil is supposed to be great for growing out long hair – how does it work? thank you so much.
Anjana
August 3, 2016 at 10:49 am
Both sesame and castor oil sit on top.
Despite claims of increased hair growth or thickness, there are no scientific studies proving castor oil can help increase hair growth or the thickness of the hair. Castor oil is not a featured ingredient in hair loss shampoos or other products designed to treat male or female pattern baldness. It’s usually the associated massaging that helps with hair growth. Source : http://www.curlcentric.com/using-castor-oil-natural-hair-growth/
Shubhangi
October 28, 2016 at 9:42 pm
Hi.
I need to ask you about oiling, as you said that shampoo shouldn’t be used that often but oil should be so after oiling my hair should I use shampoo or conditioner?
Anjana
November 2, 2016 at 10:09 am
Shubhangi, Use very little shampoo. Don’t apply too much shampoo or do a double wash.
PoornIma Patel
January 10, 2017 at 2:56 pm
Hi,
One of my personal observations is that whenever I prepoo with coconut oil and then cowash, my scalp gets cleaned but the hair length remains greasy inspite of applying minimal oil to the hair length.. And then I’ve to shampoo again.. Any suggestions regarding this.. TIA😊
Anjana
January 10, 2017 at 3:09 pm
Ya coconut oil can be quite heavy for a co wash. Either prepoo only before shampooing/decrease the amount of oil you use/try a double co wash(co wash twice and don’t confine yourself to just the scalp but apply condish to the hair length also twice). Hope that helps!
Asiyah
March 1, 2017 at 12:18 am
I use sweet almond oil as a pre-poo every time I wash or cowash. It’s very easy to remove for me unlike coconut oil which needs like 2-3 washes. Which makes me wonder… Is it more of a moisturizer or a sealing oil? Thank you!
Anjana
March 1, 2017 at 11:35 am
Hi Asiyah! Almond oil is a sealing oil. It’s fatty acids are not small enough to penetrate hair. It is easy to remove because it is a lightweight oil.
Emin
March 29, 2017 at 9:23 pm
Hi
My problem is that my hair stays moisturized during the start of the day but becomes frizzy later on. How can I prevent my hair from losing its moisture?
Anjana
March 30, 2017 at 11:36 am
Hiii..What products do you use?
Emin
March 30, 2017 at 7:37 pm
Pantene Shampoo&Conditioner. And coconut oil.
Also my hair shortens to half of its length after it dries. And it looks like I haven’t grown my hair at all in years. Please help me on that too. 😊
Anjana
March 31, 2017 at 9:51 am
Hi Emin, you need to use a leave in too to trap the moisture. You can check this out – List of curly hair products in India (for every budget). Shrinkage is a natural part of having curly hair, especially if you have a tighter curl pattern. Just embrace it 🙂 Meanwhile you can check this out – 7 ways to grow healthy hair
Emin
March 31, 2017 at 7:16 pm
Thank you so much for providing such useful but simple tips. Your hair is gorgeous BTW😃
Anjana
April 3, 2017 at 10:34 am
Thank you so much Emin!
Elisa
March 29, 2017 at 9:25 pm
Hi
My problem is that my hair stays moisturized during the start of the day but becomes frizzy later on. How can I prevent my hair from losing its moisture?
Deepa
May 15, 2017 at 12:55 pm
Hi,
I have 3a/3b curls and currently facing heavy hairfall. However, Ive noticed over the years that whenever I apply coconut oil, I see increased harifall (during both hairfall & non-hairfall periods). Due to this, I have reduced my use of coconut oil in the past 4-5 years (applying once in 2-3 months).
I realize its not healthy for my hair, but whenever I try to apply oil more frequently, I have increased hairfall for a couple of days :(. What would be your advice?
Anjana
May 16, 2017 at 2:37 pm
Hi Deepa, oiling is not at all compulsory. But I want to tell you that oils cannot directly cause hairfall. What you see is probably because of the detangling you do as you apply oil – Do hair products cause hair loss
Manjula
July 20, 2017 at 7:40 pm
Coconut oil can bind with the proteins in your hair, which is really good as protein makes your hair strong – but too much protein can make your hair brittle and feel dry. Your hair needs a bit of flexibility and too much protein can eliminate this.
Try using coconut oil once a month, and a moisturising oil once a week. I like using olive oil because I cook with it too, and Anjana has made a very good list up there of other oils you could use.
nor syazwani
November 11, 2017 at 4:29 pm
hi anjana ! i want to ask why does my hair feels dry and coarse after i do oil treatment? i used coconut oil. is it because i used too much oil?
Anjana
November 11, 2017 at 5:39 pm
Was the coconut oil hard in the bottle?
nor syazwani
November 13, 2017 at 8:34 am
nope. it is in liquid form.
Anjana
November 13, 2017 at 10:28 am
Hmm..maybe it doesn’t suit you; try olive oil next time
Belinda
December 23, 2017 at 10:53 am
Hello Anjana, this is the first time I’m on your site and I am in love with your hair! Thank you for your blog and article. When you oil your hair at night before bed, how do you sleep? Is there a special way? With a shower cap on and your hair tied up? I don’t want to get my pillow oily.
Anjana
December 23, 2017 at 10:15 pm
Thanks a ton Belinda 💜 I just lay an old tee on the pillow 🙂
Zahra
January 9, 2018 at 10:01 am
Hi Anjana, love ur blog, I have a few questions though…
Which shampoo is better wow apple vinegar or wow 10 in 1?
Secondly, I have noticed that after aplying the conditioner as a leave in, my hair is lumpy, as in the curls arent very smooth. Conditioner loreal smooth intense
Anjana
January 9, 2018 at 10:26 am
Thanks a ton! I haven’t tried either Zahra. Lumpy? Could you elaborate more?
Zuania
February 9, 2018 at 6:09 pm
Thank you so much for these tips!
Please forgive my ignorance, I am from the Caribbean and I am not familiar with the use of oils for hair. Do you apply the oil on dry hair, or should I wet my hair first?
Anjana
February 9, 2018 at 6:11 pm
Pleasure Zuania 🙂 You can do both depending on the purpose as mentioned in the post 🙂 Please read through it again
Attiya
March 6, 2018 at 11:43 am
Hey Anjana! I had questions:What do you know regarding black seed oil for hair? And also, how does a hot oil treatment work for hair? How is it better than oil at normal temperature? What is it used for?
Anjana
March 6, 2018 at 2:23 pm
I’ve heard that it’s great for hair growth. You can see an oil blend recipe here https://www.curlsandbeautydiary.com/7-ways-to-grow-healthy-hair/. Heat helps increase absorption of penetrating oils
Madhavi
July 23, 2018 at 5:14 pm
Hi annana, Leavein conditioners like u said are dilute conditioners and v can use our conditioners using a little water….My question is after applying this u just leave it on hair??…Like do not need to wash it off at all?..
Anjana
July 23, 2018 at 5:47 pm
No I don’t wash it off ; that left in conditioner will provide moisture
swati bahl
November 13, 2018 at 2:25 pm
Hi Anajana,
I recently came across your blog .. Thanks for writing !
I have few queries please help me out:
When I use silicone free shampoo like Giovanni Tea Tree .. I found more frizz as comapred to other shampoos I have used that were non CG. Please suggest if I can use normal shampoo but will use other products totally CG.
Second as m new to CG , I am scared of products , Can I use leave in conditioner(As I am Leave IN) for both purpose like after wash and then leave in the same(leave in conditioner).
Third , scrunching is done after applying conditioner or after applying leave in conditioner
Thanks
Swati
Anjana
November 13, 2018 at 3:04 pm
1) You may use other shampoos if you are not following strict CG routine – it all depends on what you like/want 🙂
2) Yes you can
3) Scrunching can be done any every stage as long as your hair is wet
swati bahl
November 13, 2018 at 3:58 pm
Thank you so much .. Great help 🙂
Namu
December 4, 2018 at 2:00 pm
Can I do oiling with mustard oil before using shampoo ? Is it helpful for my hair?? I have very dry hair
Anjana
December 4, 2018 at 2:45 pm
Oils will not help with dry hair, water does. Check this https://www.curlsandbeautydiary.com/difference-moisturizing-sealing-oiling/
The right routine and products is what will help with that – https://www.curlsandbeautydiary.com/start-here-curly-hair/
Swathi
January 31, 2019 at 7:16 pm
Hi Anjana! You have suggested parachute coconut oil in your product suggestion. 1.Does using parachute ayurvedic cocont oil or aloe vera coconut oil have any added benefits.
2.And also for pre poo method, using coconut oil with added ingredients like curry leaves, fenugreek seeds, onion is really beneficial?
3.If using a mixture of coconut castor and sesame oil useful?
Anjana
February 1, 2019 at 2:22 pm
Maybe the additional herbs and oils help. Give it a try Swathi
Vidhi
July 15, 2019 at 8:58 pm
Hi anjana!
I have 2c/3a curly hair, but I hate those curly hair which is very pluffy, frizzy, and have so much growth.,so then 2yrs ago I did a permanent hair straightening and now i am surviving with so much of hair fall and now I realize that natural hair is best! Almost half of my curly hair is came and half is chemically straight! Now my new curly hair which is very frizzy, dry and pluffy! Now I didn’t understand wht to do with those hairs! M tired with these hair! Help me pls!
Anjana
July 16, 2019 at 2:02 pm
https://www.curlsandbeautydiary.com/how-to-transition-from-chemically-straightened-hair-to-your-natural-curly-hair/
Mihira
August 12, 2019 at 4:46 pm
Hey ! It’s always great to know more about curly hair routine the Indian way! It’s more relatable! However i have this dilemma if i should oil my hair overnight(like I’ve been doing since childhood ) or use a co wash (it cannot effectively remove the oil so I’ll have to skip oiling). Thanks you!
Anjana
August 13, 2019 at 2:33 pm
If you want to oil, it would be better to shampoo the next day Mihira
Sukanya S
October 4, 2019 at 9:05 am
Hi dear, I just started CG routine few weeks before. I take bath on alternate days at night times and used to blow dry my hair before sleep. Since it’s not advised to use any heat equipments, I started to leave my hair wet before my sleep. I am having respiratory issues and because of leaving hair wet, am feeling ill in between. I am partially drying my hair with microfibre towel but not completely. Is there any alternative to dry to my hair completely before sleep?
Anjana
October 7, 2019 at 1:17 pm
Hi Sukanya, I dry my hair using a diffuser on almost all wash days. Have been doing it for years and I don’t see any damage – https://www.curlsandbeautydiary.com/everything-diffusing-curly-hair/
sandra
October 11, 2019 at 10:11 pm
Ciao ho una domanda sull’uso degli olii. Devo metterli a capelli asciutti o bagnati? Grazie
Anjana
October 14, 2019 at 1:48 pm
As a prepoo and to detangle before the wash, oils are applied on dry hair. For shine, oils are applied on wet hair
Flor-Maria Roggenbauch
January 18, 2020 at 2:19 pm
HI Anjana
I have a question concerning the oiling method. if you do pre poo how much oil should you use for the rest of your hair, that is farer away from your scalp. And when it comes to shampoo, have you ever tried Shikakai powder for this. Are those powders recomendable for curly girls or should I switch to an organic shampoo.
Thx for your answer.
Best wishes
Flor
Anjana
January 20, 2020 at 3:51 pm
Hey Flor, there’s no fixed quantity. It should be just enough so that you don’t have to need to use extra shampoo to remove it. I haven’t tried shikakai powder in the recent years, but it’s worth a try 🙂
Raghav
July 26, 2020 at 10:19 am
Hi Anjana ,
My hair curls up badly like the London-eye after oiling . I’ve tried coconut ,sesame oil as well as mustard oil , but none of them can stop curling . I use Mama-earth amla ,pectin and biotin shampoo and conditioner . I dab dry my hair with towel then let it air dry. Also I have lots of hair fall while combing as well as oiling due to scalp psoriasis so I have to keep my hair short to manage them easily . What do you suggest to do for keeping long hair ?
Kind regards
Anjana
July 27, 2020 at 2:34 pm
Hi Raghav, It’s best to embrace your curl type rather than going against nature to stop curling. That’s what the whole blog is about 🙂
Muskan Malhotra
July 27, 2020 at 4:13 pm
Hey! Nice post. But i feel that after application of coconut oil, my curls loose their definition,is this possible,also how is mustard oil for curly indian hair
Yukta
April 6, 2021 at 10:23 pm
Hello di….You are sharing so helpful information….thank you so much….😊 but I want to ask that I am in a habit of leaving oil on my hair…..means on scalp……otherwise I fell headache…so can you tell me how should I oil my hair…..?
Isabel Rosee
May 3, 2021 at 8:36 pm
Hey, my name is Isabel I read your blog, I loved it. I have bookmarked your website. Because I hope you will continue to give us such good and good information in future also.
Richa Soy
August 25, 2021 at 10:55 am
Umm, I have a confusion 😕 from a very long time. Umm , I have curly hair they are short . And I am planning to grow them a little long . I had medium hair before that use to loose their curl. Since childhood everyone has told me keep oil in my hair you know parents and the school. There so many advices and I am confused. I use flaxseed gel before shampoo. Then I use to oil my hair when they have dried then live it till next shampoo session( In my experiencethe oil has reallyprotected my hair from daily humid environment). Umm I am worried about loosing the curl definition. Can you tell me can I use flaxseed gel with oil or on lightly oiled hair . And should I oil and leave it on my hair after shampoo and which oil . And when when they are wet or have dried , for locking moisture . I don’t want to use any leave in conditioner and products. I Don’t like use them. Please answer soon . This my biggest confusion.
Shelly
April 27, 2022 at 10:21 pm
Hi can Avacado oil be used instead of serum